I found this quote about attitude online and it really spoke
to me. I recently have had some dealings
with some people who say they want to make healthy changes in their life. When they are given solutions or have
solutions it usually ends in "ya but", "I know, but". I
remember saying that to people years ago and now I see I didn’t want the
solution bad enough. It's so defeating
to have an excuse to stay the same, stay in the drama, stay in the sick
thinking, the rescuing, the enabling, the addictions. We can all come up with an excuse in order to
do what is easy.
Finally, I came to realized that I could just move forward and learn to remove the "but" and replace it with a "yes!" My whole attitude and outlook changed. I no longer felt defeated by outside events, other people, and anything else beyond my control. I was living in the solution and I still try to do that today.
Finally, I came to realized that I could just move forward and learn to remove the "but" and replace it with a "yes!" My whole attitude and outlook changed. I no longer felt defeated by outside events, other people, and anything else beyond my control. I was living in the solution and I still try to do that today.
